🌜Moon Child🌛

According to the romanticized notions of love we have been taught, you should never, ever have any misgivings. When you first meet your match, you should just KNOW and be completely certain that they are WHO YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. But this is life; it’s not a movie.

It’s common to occasionally feel uncertain and doubtful. That just implies you’re human, not that you don’t love your partner or that you’re not a good match for them. The truth is that there isn’t necessarily something wrong with the relationship simply because you feel a little unsure. We occasionally have a single instant. However, if you are actually happy with your relationship but occasionally have concerns and question why, that is a different issue. What if you are having moments and feeling uneasy all the time? Then, I want to reiterate that it’s fine and indeed quite typical.

It’s excellent that some of you may respond to this post by saying, “I never had reservations.” However, for other people, that is not the case. I honestly believe that sometimes having reservations or unease can be beneficial. After all, if we can’t see the humanity in someone else, especially in the beginning, we can truly be turning a blind eye and only seeing what we want.

Recall that uncertainties are common. You don’t need to take action until they become significant, frequent, and alarming. Doubts just indicate that you are human and do not necessarily indicate that your spouse is not a good match for you.